Meeting with Sonu

2025-08-10

Today I got call from sonu that she's in delhi and I was suprises and my sudden reaction was Lets meet in 2 hour, I was sleeping and literally from that moment I was so excited to meet her I changed my clothes took bath, did facial in salon and get ready for metro to go their. Started with listening to vedanta philosophy podcast until reached their.

So after reaching I contacted her, by what she will arrive then continued waiting for her staright 1 hr. At that time I was feeling why I am waiting so long I left my so many work to meet her and she is making me wait so long, then I just said my self this is some effort you have to give towards relation so just chill. In thought of that I was fine and kept my excitement alive with that.

I was feeling so insecure about my outfit for some reason and I purchased a cap to hide my shaved head then while I was comforting my self I sat on marbel and waited for her, there she came and I saw her bf and her friend together and unlike my high expectation she came like dressed like poor little girl no efforts on face and very weak personality just one thing I liekd was the cuteness and inoscense she had on her face.

I naturally gave my all attention to her, made everyone comfortable and invested good interest in them just to know them better and everyone were comfortable by few hours took them to subway and gave them 1 subway each then sonu asked her bf if hew wanna test her bread he denied and then ask me I literally without saying anything just took a bite of the subway she was having, then it was identical that her bf was filling out then she asked again to take a bite again but he denied maybe just she wanna show her bf that she is not interested to have my jhuta, and later she only ate the remaining part.

I was somewhere feeling good for this incident. Then we roam a bit in the Noida city center mall, and I had planned to play bowling but it was engaged and had 2hr as waiting time so planned to go out somewhere then we didn't played anything even in the timezone I was trying to make them comfortable by sharing my old childhood stories in timezone how we used steal chocolates just give them small laugh.

We took some photos inside the mall and I sarcastically asked his bf if I can take photos with sonu then took some photos with her and it was the only photo I have with her so far after 4 years. The another girl was too uncomfortable and stayed out.

Then we started going towards the garden, and while going to garden I kept asking interesting questions keeping everyone engaged and then 1 girl gave me compliment for the same that I like the way you try to go deeper into any topics.

Then went to Noida Haat, so their I sar the trampoline abt which sonu was asking to jump on I tried finding the owner but wasn't their I had in my mind to book full trampoline for sonu if he doesn't allow her. But fortunately he wasn't their LOL.

So, we take a walk and while that I wanted to give her on stall but the stall I purchased for 200 was 500 so I just didn't felt worth it to buy it then we took some photos, the another girl was very uncomfortable while taking photos I just understood that and said lets change the position don't feel so uncomfortable.

Then we saw a camel and asked sonu if she want to take a ride, then gave her a ride, she was scared as well as excited at the same time I took some good photos of her and while I was waiting for her to get down, I literally thought that his bf would pay for it but he was not even going near to the camel person, so I went and paid 100 rs it was a bit weird moment anyways I thought iasked so I should pay so paid it.

Then in casual conversation out of blues I just mentioned that what if my parents came to know you r in delhi, that would be so hilarius for me. Then she is like no issues just tell them like we are brothers and sisters. I WAS LIKE WHATTT, SERIOUSLY.

Friendzone was fine and not you r making brother, seriously. I was able to understand that she was trying to defend from his bf for the parenta thing I mentioned but still not expected at least she would have said we are good friends or something, it was unacceptable at all. So From that point I was bit OFF and loose interest in everyone literally.

I was no mlre stsrting any comvo. The we reached to garden at least I thought we would do some good convo their but it wasn't she and her bf were like doing all nibba nibbi stuff was feeling bit teasing to me. Then not gave much interest, somewhere I was also feeling she wanted bit space from her bf to talk to me infact I was also wanted the same but it didn't happen anywhere.

Then this time I asked to take photo at a good spot, and wanted to take photo with sonu but while I was standing she stood bit far and that made me feel she is not interested so I just ask take my single photo which I really not wanted. At some place when we saw Ludo I said lets play ludo in playground sonu was coming with me and his bf was like nhi nhi hum jhula khelenge. I was like okay fine.

I can see the interest on sonu's face but I said ok lets do whatever you guys like. Then I booked a bike taxi and gave sonu and his bf a side hug and said bye lets see whenever we meet again, and his bf was AB TOH YEHI HAI. KABHI BHI AJAO that was feeling like just showing OFF of open mind he has, and the dreams they had was like having a splendor bike and marriage etc..

which Sonu was not even that interested. 2 things Made me I am in completely wrong group.

• When the female friend of sonu says she wants a permanent partener and that she will get after marriage and till that not gonna talk to anyone blah balh. --> I had this in my mind If you r trying 4-5 dresses or shoes before buying for it's comfort, look, etc then why you r not applying the same on life and partners. I agree if you rnot comfortable with initimacy is fine but can do other stuff understanding psychology views on life how he or she perceive you in your life.

• When I was talking abt compliments his bf says these compliments are very childish --> This guy don't simply understand the basic necesities of human being there's no compliment is childish until it makes a lady uncomfortable till it making someone happy and smile you r adding value to their life without expectations it's just vague saying the compliments are childish and then doing actual childish actions like playing and forcing others to play in kids playground.

I mean playing is fine but that's not why I meant here, at least these actions. Then I decided not to look for her any more neither she is beautiful, too less height, not so confident, not have guts to say what she like or not. And most importantly we were meeting after 3 years and she didn't even take a thought of putting some effort to present herself in better way.

That really made me feel less important in her life and she is hapoy with his bf and I decided never to bother her for anything from now onwards. I decide now I will not talk to her from my side, no more transactions, no more jokes from myside, no more meetups, and whenever she calls me unless it's too urgent I will never gonna talk to her more than 1 minute, onlu unless I feel some really good efforts from her side.

I also felt she should have also given me some time afterall I travelled so much and waited so long for her and at the end I should at least deserved a warm hug, or a polite thank you, but nothing. I somewhere also realized that it might be not her fault, or the situation she is in becoz of pressure from PG, Uncle or BF. But anyways I got sure that I am never gonna have her my partner whatesoever from now at least.

One more thing I realized: if you genuinely want to spend time with a girl, never ask her out while also inviting her boyfriend.